Dating

[yummybunny]

That's hard to say, because we don't know if they are able to make those decisions by themselves for player-controlled people.  I know they can make the choices to date computer controlled sims.

I have a feeling that you may have to ask them, if you are playing the female sim.  

But there may be a chance were a pop-up says:  Miles wants to "Go Steady" or go on a date with you, do you accept?

Because if there isn't, your sim can be talking to another sim or a group of sims and end up going steady, or engaged without you knowing.

Since it's a seamless n-hood, that may happen, where sims do ask you out.