Alfie Patten; baby-faced daddy at 13

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I personally think it's stupid.  And teenagers are gonna keep having s3x.  They think that they would be okay, nothing happens to them, and teenagers are stupid, they think they know everything.  That's why they can't sign for stuff without their parents, because they been signed their life to the devil if it seemed cool.

In this situation, these kids thought that they were so much in love and that they were gonna be together forever.  Then they thought that having a baby would make it happily even after, like a lot of kids, and not even thinking about all the other stuff, like it's future.  The baby may be cute now, but when it's 10, she won't be as cute.  People often make the mistake of thinking about the simple things about what if the baby gets a fever, who would pay for diapers.  NOT what is our finacial situation, what if the kid wants to be in band, what if the baby gets really sick or is born handicapped.  Yeah, if it was born handicapped, yeah, they would had thought it was a mistake then.  People never think what if.  And Majick's right, it may be a blessing sometimes, it may not at other times.  And they don't know what they gotten themselves into.  And it looks like they are relying heavily on the support of their parents.  (And what jobs heavily hire 13 year olds?  That kid's parents are gonna be paying for that baby's child support and stuff)  They never thought about what if they broke up.  They would be stuck with each other until that kid's 18. 

Like on those talk shows, you get those teenagers, some hardheaded and some just just a baby, but they all want a baby and no one can't stop them.  Then on most of those shows, one or two of them are already pregnant.

Then let's say like, for example, Maury checks up on their guests.  EVERY time they check on the teenagers that gotten pregnant, they'd be like, "I made a mistake.  I should had listened to my mom.  It's too hard and I can't be a child.  I can't do my homework and it's really hard.  Please don't make the same mistake I did."  Then they have all these tears rolling down their eyes and stuff...and people don't feel sorry for them, because it's their fault.

Unlike some of you, I don't feel sorry for these kids and never will.

I graduated in HS in 2007, but in HS, there were SO many kids in my class who wanted babies.  There were those kids carrying babies around, on this dress-up day, some of my classmates put a ball or something in their shirts and came to school pregnant.  Once, a teacher asked this girl, "Haven't you thought about support for the baby?"  She said, "My parents will support me and pay for the baby."

This is the thing also, kids always think their parents will support and take care of everything they get themselves into.  Parents, in truth just do it because that's their child and grandchild and they don't want them to starve or anything, it is out of love for their child.

I understand the other side.  Some of you may be saying, what about those kids without loving parents, or they may feel totally depressed and think a baby would solve anything.  That's a different story or situation from these kids, who seem to have loving parents and by this article, look in great, mental shape.  I was so depressed before in HS, I thought about a baby...a lot, but never did try, because I thought, "If I can just make it to college, probably things be different, and I don't want to continue being my age."  Plus I was in a HIV class, and gotten scared by the diseases out there.

A friend of 12 year's brother, who is only 17 is gonna be a daddy.  And he's not doing a single thing, because of his mother.  His mother blamed the girl for tricking him into getting her pregnant, when she didn't.  He is a BAD boy, he did bad things all his life.  Then she told him that she would watch the baby, he can go hang around his NEW girlfriend, have fun, she'll support it.  And he's having unprotected s*x again, with this new girl, I know because he tells me and his sister stuff, and we don't tell no one, because we just talk to each other.  Well, he may have another baby soon, and what's gonna happen?  The same thing.

People always wanna take pity on teenage parents and stupid parents (like the woman who had 8 kids, or the people who are just having kids for government support).  Like each day on TV, you see a proposal to have daycare in high school and teen parent support programs funded by OUR TAXES!  I don't wanna pay for stupid people.  It would be different if the child was forced to get pregnant, like if it was a forced pregnancy program, for battered teens, but it's not.  Then the woman with 14 kids is on welfare, and will get more support because she had more kids.  Then taxes may pay for her bills?  California is mad at that!  Taxes don't pay for everyone else's hospital bills, so why her's.  If she can't afford it, garnish her check or take her property, like they do everyone else.  She should had thought about the costs before having babies, trying to get attention or whatever.

This is why so many teens are having babies.  When people have babies in society, especially in Hollywood, it is so cute.  (Which it isn't.)  They get so much attention for having a baby, when they do the same thing what everyone else does OR use fertitility treatments.  Then stupid people these days, (not just talking about teenage parents) are getting pitied on, getting paid for by everyone's taxes and stuff.  In other countries, those people would starve or struggle and too bad, their choice.  Just take their kids away, and let the parents struggle.  The country is getting into even more debt because of people like that.