The Duke family legacy poll

[yummybunny]

I find a lot of sims hard to handle too.

Yeah, move them out if you really feel like you cannot handle it.

What can also help is when you feel like your sim's motives are getting too low at one time, just put their motives back up to 100%, if you believe in mods and stuff like the insimenator.  That's what I do if I really need to.  Taking care of those motives can make the game feel like a chore sometimes.