What are you doing right now?

[Cassie]

Thanks guys. His ex only had the baby last summer as well. He's kept the fact that he's a dad secret to everyone... he said he didn't even know he was a dad until she told him a few months ago, blah blah blah I'm really not taking anything in he's saying to me right now... I'm not hating him for being a dad, I'm hating him for being a carbon copy of my own dad - out of the picture and doing nothing for the kid. And then gushing out lame excuses. And not telling me earlier. Whatever. No one wants to hear it, sorry.

I sure do pick 'em... he's the first one I actually liked and... yeah. I'm so glad I can just detach myself from him to be honest, it had nothing to do with me and it's not really my problem.

[bobert26]

Well, I think you did the right thing.
And did he expect you not to break up with him after this?

[gothika]

D:
Awhhh. ;_;
I am sowwah Cassie. <3

got done doing some exercises :3
Watching 'All Star Weekend' music video.

[Cassie]

He said he didn't know what to expect, that he thought he was doing the right thing telling me now, that he waited a while so that I'd get to know 'him' and not the 'teenage dad'. Which did sort of make me feel bad that I yelled at him, only because I can sort of see where he's coming from.

It's just, I've not had a good week, not with possibly leaving college because of the people in my class, having the head of the college on my case, then finding out by boyfriend's a dad... well, not exactly helped my situation.

I just need to think about it... I feel so angry and guilty at the same time. If I was a mum and someone I liked broke up with me because of that... I'd sort of feel useless. Like no one's gonna want me because I'm a mum.

[gothika]

Yes. Think it through. You may never know ;P

[Cassie]

I need advice from girls. :3
What would you do if you were in my situation?
I can't even effing text anyone because I'm too lazy to get credit. -_-
I think it would be a good idea to get some cred on my phone tomorrow...

[gothika]

lucky you can even text >_>

I'd just give him a chance. Because if somehow[God forbid] I got pregnant and someone wouldn't love me for having a kid. Well than that's their lose.

[Munsta]

(09-03-2010 12:03 AM)CassieeBethh link Wrote:I need advice from girls. :3
What would you do if you were in my situation?
I can't even effing text anyone because I'm too lazy to get credit. -_-
I think it would be a good idea to get some cred on my phone tomorrow...

I'd phone you, but my parents are asleep.
Sorry about the random text earlier by the way, I thought it said Clare.
I'm technically a girl, so I'd be able to help, LMAO.

[Cassie]

Mmm. It's just... complex. He's hardly been world's best boyfriend recently... just put on a bloody condom. THERE I SAID IT. That was the last thing I said to him before I blocked him. =P

I'll think it over tonight in bed. I just need half an hour where I the only thing I have to think about is what to post in response to you guys.

@Mike, haha, cheers. =] Oh and like I said earlier, I've been to lazy to get credit like I promised I would, I'm really sorry. Err obviously after this situation I think getting credit is sort of a priority tomorrow.
Well what would you do, though? If you really put yourself in that situation and imagine your boyfriend has a 'surpise' baby. Someone that despite the rough patches you actually liked. =\ You can PM me if you want, or just post it here, whatever.

[gothika]

talking to this guy.