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Cassie · 09-03-2010, 12:28 AM

iPod. Checking for Ambitions news.

Munsta · 09-03-2010, 12:29 AM

(09-03-2010 12:22 AM)CassieeBethh link Wrote:Mmm. It's just... complex. He's hardly been world's best boyfriend recently... just put on a bloody condom. THERE I SAID IT. That was the last thing I said to him before I blocked him. =P

I'll think it over tonight in bed. I just need half an hour where I the only thing I have to think about is what to post in response to you guys.

@Mike, haha, cheers. =] Oh and like I said earlier, I've been to lazy to get credit like I promised I would, I'm really sorry. Err obviously after this situation I think getting credit is sort of a priority tomorrow.
Well what would you do, though? If you really put yourself in that situation and imagine your boyfriend has a 'surpise' baby. Someone that despite the rough patches you actually liked. =\ You can PM me if you want, or just post it here, whatever.

LMAO. You blocked him?
Well, He had it coming I guess.

Erm...Well, I dunno how I'd feel about it to be honest.
I mean...I'm really picky when it comes to guys...Hence the fact that over the past 2 years on here, you guys have never seen me in a serious relationship.
I actually can't settle down...I feel like I'll get bored of the same guy after like the first week...because it's really true.

Anyways, I'm rabbiting on about me. I usually check if they have had s3x beforehand. I know that sounds really lame, and probably 90% of the people I'll ever meet now have had s3x by the age of 16, but I just want to feel like, they have waited for the right person...even if it isn't me. I'm all for that, as we can see. PUREEEEEE!
I'm not saying you should have asked him, maybe you did and he lied, I don't know.

And if you are going to do it, like you said, don't be silly, wrap your willy. All that shizz.
I don't know why he didn't tell you straight up in the first place, but I'm guessing he was scared just in case you went off him before you even went out.

Question for you, how exactly did he tell you? Did something trigger it and he just emptied his mind? Or did it just slip out?

I don't even know what I've just typed out, so I have no idea if it'll be any help, probably not. LMAO.

2qewl4u · 09-03-2010, 12:55 AM

I'm going to bed {yawn}

Cassie · 09-03-2010, 12:59 AM

I blocked him because I was stressed and he was digging himself a deeper hole. You know when you just need time to not hear all the crap?

I'll be 100% honest, I knew he wasn't a virgin, he asked me if I was and I told him I was a virgin and then he admitted he wasn't, I wasn't bothered because obviously it seems like half the kids in Britain have done it by the time they're 16, like you said. Maybe more tbh. I asked him how many people h's slept with, he said 3, I'm believing that to be still true as of now. I didn't like that fact but I put it past me. I didn't even contemplate the fact he might be a dad or anything, naturally you wouldn't, would you? Least I wouldn't. He's a good guy at the end of the day, not the Chavy teenage dad type.

So yeah, we knew each other's 'backgrounds'. =P I would have asked pretty soon if we'd not already discussed it anyway. And I've only been going out with him since Valentine's Day. So I wasn't considering, erm, moving to that level with him for at least another month or two so I know I'm 100% comfortable. He was talking about doing it on my birthday night, which sort of freaked me out, I was like 'I'll do it when I'm ready'. O.o He pretends he doesn't pressure girls, which he doesn't really, but he does it on the sly IMO, I'm perceptive of that.

I was at his house today, just chilling out watching TV like we normally do... sad I know but that's us for you. =P He'd told me he'd got something big to tell me before I went round, but he didn't sound unhappy about it or anything, so I wasn't really fazed. He just spoke to me while I was at his, said he had to tell me something I'm going to get mad about... and literally I just cut off from there. I could go on for ever but I'll spare you. I didn't stay around long after he told me, so half the conversation has took place on MSN. I simply did a lot of yelling about why he didn't tell me sooner at his house. On MSN he's sort of opened up a bit now I'll give home 2 seconds to actually get his side out. About why he didn't tell me, what happened with his ex, his relationship with the kid, the whole mess...

So basically. Meh. I just need to think. And be with my friends who I can trust. <3

Would you mind PMing a reply, if you want to reply that is, just to save everyone else having to scroll through this? Wink